No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later
on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and
peace for those who have been trained by it.
Chastenverb chas·ten \ˈchā-sən\
: to cause (someone) to feel sad or embarrassed about something that has happened
a : to prune (as a work or style of art) of excess, pretense, or falsity
This is NOT a sermon I am no Pastor but I decided to share this little nugget of hope i wrote for myself .
Is God chastising you ? Say Alleluia ! for He only
disciplines those whom he loves .
That is how we become Disciples From Discipline ..
The Body needs discipline talk less of our Spirits ! And
God is the Father of Spirits.
Studey Text Hebrews 12
Have you ever wondered what it takes to become a US Marine ?
It takes a lot of hard hard and vey hard work ! Have you ever wondered what it takes to be a Navy Diver for in the US Marines ?
Times a US Marine by 20 !
How many times does it take to make a lightbulb ?
Over 10,000 Times said Edison
How many trials does it take to become a Christian
77 times ?
No 7 Times 77 Times . If God continually tells us to forgive
those who trespass us 7 times 77 times How many times do
you think God will forgive us if we come to him for forgiveness ?
God knows what you are going through and you are wondering How
many times will i continue to fail to become the perfect
man or woman that God Said i should become . (be ye perfect even as your father in heaven)
You dont have to try at all For Christ Died ONCE and You
have also died but you can never give up on your trials for
they will continue for as long as we live .
When Trials come Try them out !
The Bible says Lead us NOT into temptation but DELIVER us
from Evil .. We pray not to be Led into a Trial of
Temptation but we know WE will be DELIVERED out of the evil
within every temptation Amen !
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again.
Fail better.”
~ Samuel Beckett
There is a professor at 9jabook.com who offers a course on failure for experts professors and other achievers . He does that, he says, because failure is a far more common experience than success.
An interviewer once asked him if anybody ever failed the course on failure. He said Yes. One Person has failed this course The Interviewer excited asked Who ?
He said ..
Me !
After I set up this Course I realised that Those who are willing to fail a course on Failure understand the reason they took the course in the first place . So that they can keep failing and failing and failing until they realise that you can only become a success at success if you keep being a failure at failure .
Happy Sunday Evening
Abiel John Balogun Weboga 9jabook.com
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The Article Below is for your Reading Upliftment
But They Did Not Give Up
As a young man, Abraham Lincoln went to war a captain and
returned a private. Afterwards, he was a failure as a
businessman. As a lawyer in Springfield, he was too
impractical and temperamental to be a success. He turned to
politics and was defeated in his first try for the
legislature, again defeated in his first attempt to be
nominated for congress, defeated in his application to be
commissioner of the General Land Office, defeated in the
senatorial election of 1854, defeated in his efforts for the
vice-presidency in 1856, and defeated in the senatorial
election of 1858. At about that time, he wrote in a letter
to a friend, “I am now the most miserable man living. If
what I feel were equally distributed to the whole human
family, there would not be one cheerful face on the earth.”
Winston Churchill repeated a grade during elementary school
and, when he entered Harrow, was placed in the lowest
division of the lowest class. Later, he twice failed the
entrance exam to the Royal Military Academy at Sandhurst. He
was defeated in his first effort to serve in Parliament. He
became Prime Minister at the age of 62. He later wrote,
“Never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never –
in nothing, great or small, large or petty – never give in
except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never, Never,
Never, Never give up.” (his capitals, mind you)
Socrates was called “an immoral corrupter of youth” and
continued to corrupt even after a sentence of death was
imposed on him. He drank the hemlock and died corrupting.
“Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising
every time we fall.”
~ Confucius
Sigmund Freud was booed from the podium when he first
presented his ideas to the scientific community of Europe.
He returned to his office and kept on writing.
Robert Sternberg received a C in his first college
introductory-psychology class. His teacher commented that
“there was a famous Sternberg in psychology and it was
obvious there would not be another.” Three years later
Sternberg graduated with honors from Stanford University
with exceptional distinction in psychology, summa cum laude,
and Phi Beta Kappa. In 2002, he became President of the
American Psychological Association.
Charles Darwin gave up a medical career and was told by his
father, “You care for nothing but shooting, dogs and rat
catching.” In his autobiography, Darwin wrote, “I was
considered by all my masters and my father, a very ordinary
boy, rather below the common standard of intellect.”
Clearly, he evolved.
Thomas Edison’s teachers said he was “too stupid to learn
anything.” He was fired from his first two jobs for being
“non-productive.” As an inventor, Edison made 1,000
unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. When a
reporter asked, “How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?”
Edison replied, “I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb
was an invention with 1,000 steps.”
“Great success is built on failure, frustration, even
catastrophy.”
~ Sumner Redstone
Albert Einstein did not speak until he was 4-years-old and
did not read until he was 7. His parents thought he was
“sub-normal,” and one of his teachers described him as
“mentally slow, unsociable, and adrift forever in foolish
dreams.” He was expelled from school and was refused
admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School. He did
eventually learn to speak and read. Even to do a little
math.
Louis Pasteur was only a mediocre pupil in undergraduate
studies and ranked 15th out of 22 students in chemistry. In
1872, Pierre Pachet, Professor of Physiology at Toulouse,
wrote that “Louis Pasteur’s theory of germs is ridiculous
fiction.”
Henry Ford failed and went broke five times before he
succeeded.
R. H. Macy failed seven times before his store in New York
City caught on.
“Failing is one of the greatest arts in the world. One fails
toward success.” ~ Charles Kettering
“Failure provides the opportunity to begin again, more
intelligently.” ~ Henry Ford
“The fastest way to succeed is to double your failure rate.”
~ Thomas Watson Sr.
Fred Smith, the founder of Federal Express, received a “C”
on his college paper detailing his idea for a reliable
overnight delivery service. His professor at Yale told him,
“Well, Fred, the concept is interesting and well formed, but
in order to earn better than a “C” grade, your ideas also
have to be feasible.
F. W. Woolworth was not allowed to wait on customers when he
worked in a dry goods store because, his boss said, “he
didn’t have enough sense.”
When Bell telephone was struggling to get started, its
owners offered all their rights to Western Union for
$100,000. The offer was disdainfully rejected with the
pronouncement, “What use could this company make of an
electrical toy.”
“So we went to Atari and said, ‘Hey, we’ve got this amazing
thing, even built with some of your parts, and what do you
think about funding us? Or we’ll give it to you. We just
want to do it. Pay our salary, we’ll come work for you.’ And
they said, ‘No.’ So then we went to Hewlett-Packard, and
they said, ‘Hey, we don’t need you. You haven’t got through
college yet.'” ~ Apple Computer founder Steve Jobs on
attempts to get Atari and HP interested in his and Steve
Wozniak’s personal computer.
“Only those who dare to fail greatly can achieve greatly.”
~ Robert F. Kennedy
John Garcia, who eventually was honored for his fundamental
psychological discoveries, was once told by a reviewer of
his often-rejected manuscripts that one is no more likely to
find the phenomenon he discovered than to find bird
droppings in a cuckoo clock. (sort of a cute critique
actually)
Rocket scientist Robert Goddard found his ideas bitterly
rejected by his scientific peers on the grounds that rocket
propulsion would not work in the rarefied atmosphere of
outer space.
Daniel Boone was once asked by a reporter if he had ever
been lost in the wilderness. Boone thought for a moment and
replied, “No, but I was once bewildered for about three
days.”
An expert said of Vince Lombardi: “He possesses minimal
football knowledge and lacks motivation.” Lombardi would
later write, “It’s not whether you get knocked down; it’s
whether you get back up.”
Michael Jordan and Bob Cousy were each cut from their high
school basketball teams. Jordan once observed, “I’ve failed
over and over again in my life. That is why I succeed.”
“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career.
I’ve lost almost 300 games
26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot …
and missed.
I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. That is
why I succeed.”
~ Michael Jordan
Babe Ruth is famous for his past home run record, but for
decades he also held the record for strikeouts. He hit 714
home runs and struck out 1,330 times in his career (about
which he said, “Every strike brings me closer to the next
home run.”). And didn’t Mark McGwire break that strikeout
record? (John Wooden once explained that winners make the
most errors.)
Hank Aaron went 0 for 5 his first time at bat with the
Milwakee Braves.
Stan Smith was rejected as a ball boy for a Davis Cup tennis
match because he was “too awkward and clumsy.” He went on to
clumsily win Wimbledon and the U. S. Open. And eight Davis
Cups.
“I never learned a thing from a tournament I won.”
~ Bobby Jones
Tom Landry, Chuck Noll, Bill Walsh, and Jimmy Johnson
accounted for 11 of the 19 Super Bowl victories from 1974 to
1993. They also share the distinction of having the worst
records of first-season head coaches in NFL history – they
didn’t win a single game.
Johnny Unitas’s first pass in the NFL was intercepted and
returned for a touchdown. Joe Montana’s first pass was also
intercepted. And while we’re on quarterbacks, during his
first season Troy Aikman threw twice as many interceptions
(18) as touchdowns (9) . . . oh, and he didn’t win a single
game. You think there’s a lesson here?
In his first professional race, cyclist Lance Armstrong
finished . . . drumroll . . . last. He made up for this
lackluster first effort by being the only man to win the
Tour de France six consecutive times. And still counting.
Talk about overcompensation.
After Carl Lewis won the gold medal for the long jump in the
1996 Olympic games, he was asked to what he attributed his
longevity, having competed for almost 20 years. He said,
“Remembering that you have both wins and losses along the
way. I don’t take either one too seriously.”
“Our achievements speak for themselves.
What we have to keep track of are our failures,
discouragements, and doubts.
We tend to forget the past difficulties, the many false
starts, and the painful groping.
We see our past achievements as the end result of a clean
forward thrust,
and our present difficulties as signs of decline and decay.”
~ Eric Hoffer
Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because “he
lacked imagination and had no good ideas.” He went bankrupt
several times before he built Disneyland. In fact, the
proposed park was rejected by the city of Anaheim on the
grounds that it would only attract riffraff.
Charles Schultz had every cartoon he submitted rejected by
his high school yearbook staff. Oh, and Walt Disney wouldn’t
hire him.
Who the hell wants to hear actors talk?” ~ H. M. Warner,
Warner Brothers Films, 1927
After Fred Astaire’s first screen test, the memo from the
testing director of MGM, dated 1933, read, “Can’t act. Can’t
sing. Slightly bald. Can dance a little.” He kept that memo
over the fire place in his Beverly Hills home. Astaire once
observed that “when you’re experimenting, you have to try so
many things before you choose what you want, that you may go
days getting nothing but exhaustion.” And here is the reward
for perseverance: “The higher up you go, the more mistakes
you are allowed. Right at the top, if you make enough of
them, it’s considered to be your style.”
When Julie Andrews took her first screen test for MGM
studios, the final determination was that “She’s not
photogenic enough for film.”
“Flops are a part of life’s menu
and I’ve never been a girl to miss out on any of the
courses.”
~ Rosalind Russell
Federico Fellini’s first films, “Luci del varieta” and “El
sceicco bianco” were dismal financial and critical failures.
In 1952, one film critic wrote, “We shall never hear from
Fellini again.” Two years later, Fellini directed “La
Strada,” which went on to garner the Academy Award and New
York Film Critics Circle Award for Best Foreign Film, as
well as the Golden Lion at the Venice Film Festival. What is
it they say about critics … something about knowing the
worth of everything and the value of nothing?
After his first audition, Sidney Poitier was told by the
casting director, “Why don’t you stop wasting people’s time
and go out and become a dishwasher or something?” It was at
that moment, recalls Poitier, that he decided to devote his
life to acting.
When Lucille Ball began studying to be actress in 1927, she
was told by the head instructor of the John Murray Anderson
Drama School, “Try any other profession.”
The first time Jerry Seinfeld walked on-stage at a comedy
club as a professional comic, he looked out at the audience,
froze, and forgot the English language. He stumbled through
“a minute-and a half” of material and was jeered offstage.
He returned the following night and closed his set to wild
applause.
“The essential part of creativity is not being afraid to
fail.”
~ Edwin Land
In 1944, Emmeline Snively, director of the Blue Book
Modeling Agency, told modeling hopeful Norma Jean Baker,
“You’d better learn secretarial work or else get married.”
I’m sure you know that Norma Jean was Marilyn Monroe. Now .
. . who was Emmeline Snively?
At the age of 21, French acting legend Jeanne Moreau was
told by a casting director that her head was too crooked,
she wasn’t beautiful enough, and she wasn’t photogenic
enough to make it in films. She took a deep breath and said
to herself, “Alright, then, I guess I will have to make it
my own way.” After making nearly 100 films her own way, in
1997 she received the European Film Academy Lifetime
Achievement Award.
After Harrison Ford’s first performance as a hotel bellhop
in the film Dead Heat on a Merry-Go-Round, the studio vice-
president called him in to his office. “Sit down kid,” the
studio head said, “I want to tell you a story. The first
time Tony Curtis was ever in a movie he delivered a bag of
groceries. We took one look at him and knew he was a movie
star.” Ford replied, “I thought you were spossed to think
that he was a grocery delivery boy.” The vice president
dismissed Ford with “You ain’t got it kid , you ain’t got it
… now get out of here.”
Michael Caine’s headmaster told him, “You will be a laborer
all your life.” Caine labored his way to two Academy Awards.
Charlie Chaplin was initially rejected by Hollywood studio
chiefs because his pantomime was considered “nonsense.”
“I don’t believe I have special talents, I have persistence
… After the first failure, second failure, third failure, I
kept trying.”
~ Carlo Rubbia, Nobel Prize winning Physicist
In high school, actor and comic Robin Williams was voted
“Least Likely to Succeed.”
Enrico Caruso’s music teacher said he had no voice at all
and could not sing. His parents wanted him to become an
engineer.
Decca Records turned down a recording contract with the
Beatles with the unprophetic evaluation, “We don’t like
their sound. Groups of guitars are on their way out.” After
Decca rejected the Beatles, Columbia records followed suit.
In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, fired
Elvis Presley after one performance. He told Presley, “You
ain’t goin’ nowhere, son. You ought to go back to drivin’ a
truck.”
Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly and preferred playing
his own compositions instead of improving his technique. His
teacher called him “hopeless as a composer.” And, of course,
you know that he wrote five of his greatest symphonies while
completely deaf.
“No matter how hard you work for success, if your thought is
saturated with the fear of failure, it will kill your
efforts, neutralize your endeavors and make success
impossible.”
~ Baudjuin
The Impressionists had to arrange their own art exhibitions
because their works were routinely rejected by the Paris
Salon. How many of you have heard of the Paris Salon?
A Paris art dealer refused Picasso shelter when he asked if
he could bring in his paintings from out of the rain. One
hopes that there is justice in this world and that the art
dealer eventually went broke.
Van Gogh sold only one painting during his life. And this to
the sister of one of his friends for 400 francs
(approximately $50). This didn’t stop him from completing
over 800 paintings.
John Constable’s luminous painting Watermeadows at Salisbury
was dismissed in 1830 by a judge at the Royal Academy as “a
nasty green thing.” Name of the judge, anyone? Anyone?
Rodin’s father once said, “I have an idiot for a son.”
Described as the worst pupil in the school, he was rejected
three times admittance to the Ecole des Beaux-Arts. His
uncle called him uneducable. Perhaps this gave him food for
thought.
Stravinsky was run out of town by an enraged audience and
critics after the first performance of the Rite of Spring.
Later in life, he observed that “I have learned throughout
my life as a composer chiefly through my mistakes and
pursuits of false assumptions, not by my exposure to founts
of wisdom and knowledge.”
When Pablo Casals reached 95, a young reporter asked him
“Mr. Casals, you are 95 and the greatest cellist that ever
lived. Why do you still practice six hours a day?” Mr.
Casals answered, “Because I think I’m making progress.”
“Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune;
but great minds rise above them.”
~ Washington Irving
Leo Tolstoy flunked out of college. He was described as both
“unable and unwilling to learn.” No doubt a slow developer.
Louisa May Alcott, author of Little Women, was encouraged to
find work as a servant by her family.
Emily Dickinson had only seven poems published in her
lifetime.
12 publishers rejected J.K. Rowling’s book about a boy
wizard before a small London house picked up Harry Potter
and the Philosopher’s Stone.
15 publishers rejected a manuscript by e. e. cummings. When
he finally got it published by his mother, the dedication,
printed in uppercase letters, read WITH NO THANKS TO . . .
followed by the list of publishers who had rejected his
prized offering. Nice going Eddie. Thanks for illustrating
that nobody loses all the time.
18 publishers turned down Richard Bach’s story about a
“soaring eagle.” Macmillan finally published Jonathan
Livingston Seagull in 1970. By 1975 it had sold more than 7
million copies in the U.S. alone.
“Life knocks a man down and he gits up and it knocks him
down again …
What’s he to do when he gits knocked down?
Why, take it for his share and go on.”
~ Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings
The Yearling
21 publishers rejected Richard Hooker’s humorous war novel,
M*A*S*H. He had worked on it for seven years.
22 publishers rejected James Joyce’s The Dubliners.
27 publishers rejected Dr. Seuss’s first book, To Think That
I Saw It on Mulberry Street.
Jack London received six hundred rejection slips before he
sold his first story.
English crime novelist John Creasey got 753 rejection slips
before he published 564 books.
William Saroyan accumulated more than a thousand rejections
before he had his first literary piece published. Way to not
take a hint, Bill!
“Every great cause is born from repeated failures and from
imperfect achievements.”
~ Maria Montessori
Gertrude Stein submitted poems to editors for nearly 20
years before one was finally accepted. See . . . a rose is a
rose.
I bet you didn’t know that John Milton wrote Paradise Lost
16 years after losing his eyesight
One of Professor Pajares’s first research efforts came back
with a review that began, “There are so many things I don’t
like about this article I just don’t know where to begin.”
There is a professor at MIT who offers a course on failure.
He does that, he says, because failure is a far more common
experience than success. An interviewer once asked him if
anybody ever failed the course on failure. He thought a
moment and replied, “No, but there were two Incompletes.”
Let’s end with Woody Allen: “I don’t want to achieve
immortality through my work. I want to achieve it through
not dying. Eighty percent of success is showing up.”
“There is something to be said for keeping at a thing, isn’t
there?”
~ Frank Sinatra
chasten
verb chas·ten \ˈchā-sən\
: to cause (someone) to feel sad or embarrassed about something that has happened
There is a professor at 9jabook.com who offers a course on failure for experts professors and other achievers . He does that, he says, because failure is a far more common experience than success.
An interviewer once asked him if anybody ever failed the course on failure. He said Yes. One Person has failed this course The Interviewer excited asked Who ?
He said ..
Me !
After I set up this Course I realised that Those who are willing to fail a course on Failure understand the reason they took the course in the first place . So that they can keep failing and failing and failing until they realise that you can only become a success at success if you keep being a failure at failure .
abi writes from 9jabook.com
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